Enter marriage carefully and prayerfully. If God is with you in it, it can be almost inconceivable blessing and comfort and joy. If God is not with you in it, it cannot be at last anything but a dreadful bondage and curse, if you have any sincerity for the Truth. Beware! It is for your life! Do not dare to enter marriage without the assurance of God's approval (by doing it HIS way according to HIS commands). Any other course is tragic folly, IF you are truly interested in the joy of total Divine service and communion. With those who are not, it doesn't really matter much either way, for outside of God, ALL life is tragic folly.